This week’s visitor of Buket Aydın and Face to Face, which was broadcast on Haber World, was singer and actress Yeşim Salkım. Salkım answered the questions one after the other for about an hour and a half.
Listed below are the highlights of Yeşim Salkım’s statements:
I’ve had a really fantastic life. I’ve had an excellent life. In her childhood, I used to be the lady who took her inexperienced pillow in her grandfather’s tiny home and sang people songs along with her grandfather, and I grew to become the lady who went to school. I grew to become the lady who misplaced religion in marriage and love when her dad and mom separated, however then fell in love like a canine. If I say “I used to be pleased right here, I used to be sad right here”, I’d be unfair to life. I’m the girl who took the nook with 180. I’ve been going to psychologists and psychiatrists since 1990. I do know nearly all the docs. There are some who take medication once they see me. I really like the adrenaline and the ache, the love that can not be met.
“AFTER HAZAN UZAN, I HAVE NEVER HAD A MAN WITH ITS ASSETS”
After the divorce, I felt freedom and respiratory. I used to be 48 kilos after I determined to divorce. I used to be smoking 4 medication and 4 packs of tobacco merchandise a day. I wished my freedom again. Within the interval after Hakan Uzan, there has by no means been a person with property in my life. My two youngsters are the youngsters of middle-class individuals who don’t have any cash, they’re youngsters of affection. Mission youngsters aren’t. However this doesn’t imply that my spouse at the moment was dangerous, my freedoms have been restricted. I can’t enter the molds, I can’t enter the consistency of the molds, and it didn’t occur anyway. I’m a girl of affection, I imagine in love so much. There’s not a lot love in our world both. When coming into into relationships, I don’t take a look at the account. I used to be 26 years outdated after I married Hakan, I used to be very younger. Hakan was a flirtatious, I feel he’s nonetheless a flirtatious man.
“MY CARER WAS FRENCH”
My father is among the most essential artists of that interval, who’s remembered at this time after Zeki Müren. I bought on the primary boat with my father, I did not want one other man’s boat. I went to my first faculty with my father. My babysitter was French. After the age of 16, the breaking factors started in our lives. However they by no means know there. You have got a household… Flip somebody on the road, the one factor they find out about me is my wives. They do not care what I’ve performed. All the ladies take a look at the lads subsequent to one another. You fall in love with a person, it may be his cash too. Why may the truth that I am married to a fantastic man, that he has cash and our happiness trouble the opposite social gathering?
“GOOD HALAL TO CEM UZAN”
In the beginning of my marriage with Hakan, we had an issue with Cem, and it ended after 1 yr. We had a really dangerous yr, but it surely’s over. Could my proper be halal to everybody, might or not it’s halal to Cem Uzan. There’s loss of life.
“I NEVER BEEN FRIENDS WITH GÜLBEN”
We went by means of a course of that we should not have, I forgave everybody in my life, for me the problem was closed. The topic of Gülben Ergen is over for me. I can not look again whereas operating the 100m hurdles. Could everybody be open. If we can’t remove the ideas of resentment and reconciliation, it will go on for years. Who am I hurting? I get damage very near my spouse, kin. However I’ve by no means been pals with Gülben, I didn’t sit down and drink espresso. He’s not my enemy, simply as he’s not my pal. Could the highway be clear. There have been days after I was very unhappy and damage so much, however we each have youngsters who’ve grown up and entered puberty. I completed it, I hope they end it too.
Once I opened the stage, I used to be singing to 4 folks. I refused to be a headliner, my journey began after that. I have not purchased any garments for 3 years.
“I THINK IT IS NOT EASY TO BE A WORLD STAR”
The most important pop star of the 90s was Yonca Evcimik. I feel the star of that interval is Yonca, Hakan Peker, Yıldız Tilbe, Aşkın Nur Yengi. Sertab Erener, Levent Yüksel. The depend doesn’t finish. Tarkan got here throughout such a course of that it was performed very nicely. Tarkan went to the USA and made an album, but it surely did not work. They don’t make a world star from Turkey, a Muslim nation, wherever. They do not even settle for us within the EU, which star? They are saying Fatih Akın, the person is of German origin. I feel being a world star just isn’t that straightforward. If there’s a world star, it’s Sertab Erener. As we speak’s popstar is Edis. I don’t assume that Aleyna Tilki’s ft are very firmly on the bottom.
I don’t discover Cem Yılmaz’s latest movies profitable. I really like her very a lot.
“I SUPPORT MERAL AKŞENER”
I don’t see anybody who has been concerned in politics in our nation recently. They both do politics or they struggle. Politicians can’t talk with Era Z by making TikTok movies. No politician can talk with the present era as a result of it’s not a handful era. For instance, I would not even take heed to my father’s phrase. If those that will rule me assume that I’ll take heed to what my father has not even listened to, they’re incorrect. I discover Meral Akşener shut and assist her as a result of she is a girl, however there’s none aside from her.
“MEN AGAINST ME WANTED THE MARRIAGE”
Ladies, marriage just isn’t a hit story. It’s a contract that societies dictate to us. That contract has now began to show the other way up as a result of males take a look at you as should you have been your property. I by no means wished to get married, the lads in entrance of me did. Getting married just isn’t an ingenuity, it’s ingenuity, being in a sustainable relationship. I could not deal with it. The establishment of marriage is neither for the girl nor for the person. Males aren’t very clever beings, particularly with regards to girls. Girls can really handle males very simply in the event that they wish to, however there’s additionally the scenario of “will I all the time handle you”.
I am with my spouse in Switzerland on Valentine’s Day, I do not wish to give her title. We’re on the lodge, the doorbell rang, 101 roses got here in. I’m so pleased. Then I noticed my spouse went inside, took a bathe, bought dressed, took her suitcase and goes. “The place are you going?” I stated, “I’ve a gathering,” he stated. “However at this time is Valentine’s Day,” I stated, “Okay, we had breakfast, and I bought your flower,” he stated. At the moment, I stated, I want he had plucked a rose within the backyard and gave it to us in order that we may very well be collectively till the night.
“My BIG GIRL IS COTTON PRINCESS”
When my ex-wife Mustafa left, I cried for days, I cried a lot that I used to be hospitalized. I begged Ada’s father to not go too, I stated let’s elevate our youngster collectively, he went too and I cried so much. My children are my pink line, they’ll inform me something, it would not damage anymore, I am used to it. However a being that may take my youngsters to his mouth didn’t come to earth. My youngsters make errors, they pay the value to me. My eldest daughter is a snow white princess. Even Pollyanna.
Once I first went out, there was somebody who haunted me. He was writing letters to me in a language he developed himself, which we didn’t perceive. We gave it to the prosecutor’s workplace, this particular person got here out of a jail who was not mentally steady.
“NO BATTLE PRODUCTION”
I’m genuine. I am not blunt, I am real. That is how I’m at house. Make certain, my pals who’re watching me proper now say “that is our lady”. I defend one thing by engaged on it, by researching it. There isn’t a quarrelsome manufacturing. The place I ought to apologize, I additionally apologize. I’ve 87 % feminine followers on social media. Which means girls belief me.
“My Father Did not Die From Corona Virus”
My father didn’t die of coronavirus. His assistant at house grew to become coronavirus, he handed it on to my father. Then my father was hospitalized for about 10 days, then he died as a result of his coronary heart stopped. I noticed how essential my father was to me after I misplaced him. I remembered extra the occasions that I could not spend with him, how little I hugged him, that there was all the time a distance between us. On the age of 13-14, conflicts began between us, however I used to be very a lot in love with my father. I’m lucky to be the daughter of such a father.
Once I realized that my father had betrayed my mom and that I used to be a younger lady, it put a fantastic distance between me and my father. At the moment, Duygu Asena’s guide, No Title of a Girl, got here out and I learn it. I felt how shut I used to be to that lady. Conflicts broke out at the moment. These conflicts took me to a really completely different dimension concerning males.
I went on a path saying “Marriage won’t ever occur in my life”. I did not see my father for 3 years. My 2nd album was out and it was promoting nicely. The decor fell into my head whereas I used to be capturing the clip. I stated “1 minute” to everybody, “I missed my father a lot…” That day, too, the oil lamp was lit, I referred to as my father and congratulated him on the lamp and stated that I missed him a lot. If solely he had lived a bit longer, the daddy would have been very completely different.
I do not respect at this time’s marriages. I do not respect women and men who go round with double telephones.
My youngsters have superb relations with their father. I really like and respect my youngsters’s fathers and wish them to be nicely.
“There’s SOMEONE I THINK I’M CHARGING YOU”
I’ve by no means cheated, however there’s one particular person I stated “If this continues like this, I am going to cheat on you”. It was certainly one of my wives. Let me preserve his title… When he heard this, he stated to me, “Do not depart me, I am okay with that too”. My respect dwindled much more. If I had a 15 % share of my going, I misplaced that too.
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