Broadcasted on Information World screens Bouquet Aydin This week’s visitor of “Face to Face” was singer and actress Yeşim Salkım. Salkım answered the questions one after the other for about an hour and a half.
“I GO TO A PSYCHOLOGIST AND PSYCHIATRA SINCE 1990”
I’ve had a really great life. I’ve had an excellent life. In her childhood, I used to be the woman who took her inexperienced pillow in her grandfather’s tiny home and sang people songs along with her grandfather, and I grew to become the woman who went to varsity. I grew to become the woman who misplaced religion in marriage and love when her dad and mom separated, however then fell in love like a canine. If I say “I used to be comfortable right here, I used to be sad right here”, I might be unfair to life. I’m the girl who took the nook with 180. I’ve been going to psychologists and psychiatrists since 1990. I do know virtually the entire medical doctors. There are some who take drugs once they see me. I really like the adrenaline and the ache, the love that can not be met.
“I FEEL FREEDOM AFTER DIVORCE”
After the divorce, I felt freedom and respiration. I used to be 48 kilos once I determined to divorce. I used to be smoking 4 medicine and 4 packs of tobacco merchandise a day. I needed my freedom again. Within the interval after Hakan Uzan, there has by no means been a person with belongings in my life. My two youngsters are the youngsters of middle-class individuals who don’t have any cash, they’re youngsters of affection. Undertaking youngsters usually are not. However this doesn’t imply that my spouse at the moment was dangerous, my freedoms had been restricted. I can not enter the molds, I can not enter the consistency of the molds, and it didn’t occur anyway. I’m a girl of affection, I consider in love quite a bit. There’s not a lot love in our world both. When coming into into relationships, I don’t have a look at the account. I used to be 26 years outdated once I married Hakan, I used to be very younger. Hakan was a flirtatious, I believe he’s nonetheless a flirtatious man.
“BREAKING POINTS STARTED IN OUR LIVES AFTER THE AGE OF 16”
My father is among the most necessary artists of that interval, who’s remembered at this time after Zeki Müren. I acquired on the primary boat with my father, I did not want one other man’s boat. I went to my first school with my father. My babysitter was French. After the age of 16, the breaking factors started in our lives. However they by no means know there. You’ve a household… Flip somebody on the road, the one factor they learn about me is my wives. They do not care what I’ve finished. All the ladies have a look at the boys subsequent to one another. You fall in love with a person, it may be his cash too. Why would possibly the truth that I am married to a wonderful man, that he has cash and our happiness trouble the opposite celebration?
“GOOD HALAL TO CEM UZAN”
Firstly of my marriage with Hakan, we had an issue with Cem, and it ended after 1 yr. We had a really dangerous yr, nevertheless it’s over. Might my proper be halal to everybody, might it’s halal to Cem Uzan. There’s demise.
“LET GÜLBEN ERGEN’S WAY BE OPEN”
We went by way of a course of that we should not have, I forgave everybody in my life, for me the problem was closed. The topic of Gülben Ergen is over for me. I can not look again whereas operating the 100m hurdles. Might everybody be open. If we can not remove the ideas of resentment and reconciliation, it will go on for years. Who am I hurting? I get damage very near my spouse, family members. However I’ve by no means been associates with Gülben, I didn’t sit down and drink espresso. He’s not my enemy, simply as he isn’t my buddy. Might the street be clear. There have been days once I was very unhappy and damage quite a bit, however we each have youngsters who’ve grown up and entered puberty. I completed it, I hope they end it too.
After I opened the stage, I used to be singing to 4 folks. I refused to be a headliner, my journey began after that. I have never purchased any garments for 3 years.
“TODAY’S POPSTAR EDIS”
The most important pop star of the 90s was Yonca Evcimik. I believe the star of that interval is Yonca, Hakan Peker, Yıldız Tilbe, Aşkın Nur Yengi. Sertab Erener, Levent Yüksel. The rely doesn’t finish. Tarkan got here throughout such a course of that it was performed very effectively. Tarkan went to the USA and made an album, nevertheless it did not work. They don’t make a world star from Turkey, a Muslim nation, wherever. They do not even settle for us within the EU, which star? They are saying Fatih Akın, the person is of German origin. I believe being a world star isn’t that simple. If there’s a world star, it’s Sertab Erener. At the moment’s popstar is Edis. I don’t assume that Aleyna Tilki’s toes are very firmly on the bottom.
I don’t discover Cem Yılmaz’s current movies profitable. I really like her very a lot.
“NO POLITICIAN CAN COMMUNICATE WITH THE PRESENT GENERATION”
I don’t see anybody who has been concerned in politics in our nation recently. They both do politics or they struggle. Politicians can not talk with Technology Z by making TikTok movies. No politician can talk with the present era as a result of it’s not a handful era. For instance, I would not even take heed to my father’s phrase. If those that will rule me assume that I’ll take heed to what my father has not even listened to, they’re mistaken. I discover Meral Akşener shut and help her as a result of she is a girl, however there may be none aside from her.
“I NEVER WANTED TO BE MARRIED, THE MEN WANTED TO ME”
Ladies, marriage isn’t a hit story. It’s a contract that societies dictate to us. That contract has now began to show the other way up as a result of males have a look at you as should you had been your property. I by no means needed to get married, the boys in entrance of me did. Getting married isn’t an ingenuity, it’s ingenuity, being in a sustainable relationship. I could not deal with it. The establishment of marriage is neither for the girl nor for the person. Males usually are not very clever beings, particularly in terms of girls. Ladies can really handle males very simply in the event that they wish to, however there may be additionally the state of affairs of “will I all the time handle you”.
I am with my spouse in Switzerland on Valentine’s Day, I do not wish to give her identify. We’re on the lodge, the doorbell rang, 101 roses got here in. I’m so comfortable. Then I noticed my spouse went inside, took a bathe, acquired dressed, took her suitcase and goes. “The place are you going?” I mentioned, “I’ve a gathering,” he mentioned. “However at this time is Valentine’s Day,” I mentioned, “Okay, we had breakfast, and I acquired your flower,” he mentioned. At the moment, I mentioned, I want he had plucked a rose within the backyard and gave it to us in order that we might be collectively till the night.
“I CRYED SO MUCH I WAS HOSPITAL”
When my ex-wife Mustafa left, I cried for days, I cried a lot that I used to be hospitalized. I begged Ada’s father to not go too, I mentioned let’s increase our youngster collectively, he went too and I cried quite a bit. My children are my pink line, they will inform me something, it does not damage anymore, I am used to it. However a being that will take my youngsters to his mouth didn’t come to earth. My youngsters make errors, they pay the value to me. My eldest daughter is a snow white princess. Even Pollyanna.
After I first went out, there was somebody who haunted me. He was writing letters to me in a language he developed himself, which we didn’t perceive. We gave it to the prosecutor’s workplace, this individual got here out of a jail who was not mentally steady.
“I’M NOT DOBRA, I’M AUTHENTIC”
I’m genuine. I am not blunt, I am real. That is how I’m at residence. Make certain, my associates who’re watching me proper now say “that is our woman”. I defend one thing by engaged on it, by researching it. There is no such thing as a quarrelsome manufacturing. The place I ought to apologize, I additionally apologize. I’ve 87 p.c feminine followers on social media. Which means girls belief me.
“EVERYONE THINK HE DID OF CORONAVIRUS, BUT MY FATHER DID NOT DIE FOR THAT”
My father didn’t die of coronavirus. His assistant at residence grew to become coronavirus, he handed it on to my father. Then my father was hospitalized for about 10 days, then he died as a result of his coronary heart stopped. I spotted how necessary my father was to me once I misplaced him. I remembered extra the instances that I could not spend with him, how little I hugged him, that there was all the time a distance between us. On the age of 13-14, conflicts began between us, however I used to be very a lot in love with my father. I’m lucky to be the daughter of such a father. After I realized that my father had betrayed my mom and that I used to be a younger woman, it put an amazing distance between me and my father. At the moment, Duygu Asena’s guide, No Identify of a Girl, got here out and I learn it. I felt how shut I used to be to that lady. Conflicts broke out at the moment. These conflicts took me to a really totally different dimension concerning males. I went on a path saying “Marriage won’t ever occur in my life”. I did not see my father for 3 years. My 2nd album was out and it was promoting effectively. The decor fell into my head whereas I used to be taking pictures the clip. I mentioned “1 minute” to everybody, “I missed my father a lot…” That day, too, the oil lamp was lit, I referred to as my father and congratulated him on the lamp and mentioned that I missed him a lot. If solely he had lived just a little longer, the daddy would have been very totally different.
I do not respect at this time’s marriages. I do not respect women and men who go round with double telephones.
My youngsters have excellent relations with their father. I really like and respect my youngsters’s fathers and wish them to be effectively.
“I NEVER CHEATED BUT…”
I’ve by no means cheated, however there may be 1 individual I mentioned “If this continues like this, I’ll cheat on you”. It was one in every of my wives. Let me preserve his identify… When he heard this, he mentioned to me, “Do not depart me, I am okay with that too”. My respect dwindled much more. If I had a 15 p.c share of my going, I misplaced that too.
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